This is another posting about cheaters. Honestly I hate to discuss current topic with you because being cheated is the most heart suffering in this world. My friend, Stephany Alexander will share her experience to us about cheat things.

Men cheat women due to several reasons. Sometimes they do so because they have the opportunity. Cheating is typically done by three types of men: those with low self esteem, those who are unhappy at home and those who are afraid of commitment and are seeking ‘fun love’. According to the statistics on cheating spouses, 50 to 70% of married men (between 38 and 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their wives. One recent study found that 2/3 of the wives (26 to 36 million women) whose husbands were cheating had no idea their husbands were having an affair - largely because they failed to recognize their cheating signs.

Married men, particularly those in long term relationships, cheat mainly because they believe that having a short-term affair will resolve any problems temporarily they have at home and prevent them from ‘hurting’ anyone long term. The actual fact that their partner is already being hurt by their lack of attention and affection - and being prevented from finding love too - does not comes into the picture. There are three problems to this approach. First, it stops the major conflicts in the relationship being explored, acknowledged, and addressed. Second, it makes the situation worse because any contact only proves starkly what is already missing at home, especially sexually. Thirdly, it deliberately ignores the fact that the man is taking his affections elsewhere which begs the question: How does giving one’s self to someone else shows love and affection for the person left at home and, accord her due respect for her love and support?

Men who cheat women by keeping relationships stray through a conflict of perception. What their women perceive that men want from them may not be necessarily what those men actually desire, and women seldom seek to find out because they are afraid of the answers! So after the honeymoon period is over, when their desires have not been fulfilled, spouses soon seek it elsewhere. In the meantime the women who are affected turn on the men and blame them for their ‘bad’ behavior instead of looking into themselves to see where they have missed a connection and, at worse, getting out of their demoralizing situation. It is always easier to verify others because it stops us looking at ourselves, but women aren’t tied to philandering men. One very lucid example of a man cheating would be if a man were to regularly take one particular coworker out to lunch or dinner meetings. In most of the cases, it would be safe to assume that she offers him more than just a discussion about work. She is also probably providing him with emotional companionship, giving him an opportunity to share his thoughts and feelings.

Men who are cheating emotionally often begin to question whether or not they should be seeing that one particular woman as much as they are now. They know deep down inside really well that she means more to them than just a regular female friend would and thus feel a degree of guilt for seeing her. One in five married women has had a fling in the past, the highest numbers ever recorded, according to one group of researchers. In fact, the numbers of cheating wives has now equalled the statistics on cheating husbands. Society has given women the permission to be sexually active, and it is perfectly clear why women do it, it is for the same reasons men do. They are not getting what they want out of their marriage. The workplace, working out, the Internet, women now have more sexual opportunities than ever before. With better salaries and no children, the stakes seem to be low even if they are caught.

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Maybe you have ask to yourself, are men cheating more than women or you are the victim, being cheated by your girl or man? Well, you better read this article to know further more. Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship. Do these infidelity statistics seem a bit startling? What these findings suggest is that approximately one half of all married men and women do seek intimacy outside of their committed relationships. But what does this really mean and why are the number of men and women having extramarital affairs so high?

This may come as a complete surprise, but most extramarital affairs are not about sex. What then, is the main factor that causes infidelity? One should pay attention to the reason most people find intimacy with someone outside of their marriage is because of their emotional needs are not being met. Yes, it is true in most cases of infidelity and about wanting to feel emotionally connected to someone.

One should realize that suggestions may not be particularly popular, especially among men and women who are on the receiving end of the infidelity. Obviously, finding out that your spouse or partner has cheated on you is shocking and painful. Realizing that you are just another number that adds to the infidelity statistic is not something you would like to flaunt. Okay so you already know now, keep reading to knowing more details.

The reality is that there are a lot of unsatisfying and empty relationships out there, but however, the reason why infidelity statistics are as high as they are is because people place a higher value on their careers, children, friends or hobbies and not on their relationships with their partners. Think about it, when you neglect any of these areas, it is just a matter of time before they deteriorate and ultimately lead to its untimely death. The failure in the relationship becomes imminent..The bottom line is that if you want to avoid becoming yet another case that adds to the infidelity statistic, then you must nurture and prioritize your relationship with your spouse or partner. As you may have already figured out, unlike planes, relationships cannot be maintained on “auto-pilot”.

According to the current infidelity statistics 60% of men and 40% of women are involved in extramarital affair. These figures are even more drastic when the total numbers of marriages are considered. Because it is less likely that all the men and women having extramarital affairs do happen to be married to each other. At least half of the women having affairs are married to men are not included in the 60% of men having affairs, then at least one partner will have an affair in about 80% of all marriages. With this study you can see that many marriages are getting affected and it is unreasonable to think affairs are due to the failures and shortcomings of individual husbands or wives. Leave alone the entire world, only in U S, 17% of divorces are caused by unknown misconceptions such as infidelity. Womansavers.com said that there exists even strong evidence, which proves that there is a high correlation between on-line infidelity and subsequent real-time sexual affairs.

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This interesting article addresses some of the key issues regarding Romantic Ideas. A careful reading of this material could make a big difference in how you think about Romantic Ideas.

Food and romance:

There is a close bond between food and romance, which is why a candle-lit dinner with a sweetheart is much sought after.
A food related gift is also a good idea.

For the more enterprising ones, a plate engraved with a love message can be used to serve food either at home or you can ask a waiter to do so at a restaurant.

You can wrap a little surprise gift for your partner and keep it in his/her favourite food box. I trust that what you’ve read so far has been informative. The following section should go a long way toward clearing up any uncertainty that may remain.

Surprise your sweetheart with a delicious meal delivered from a restaurant right to her door.

You may even cook up a meal and serve it with roses and love poems to set the mood for romance and finally seal it with a kiss.

So, let your imagination run wild and cook up new ideas to tingle the taste buds and at the same time tug at the heartstrings.

Some of your romantic ideas could focus on celebrating special occasions together in a way so as to give romance a big boost. You may either share an intimate evening together or go out on a romantic date.

The basic tenet of romantic ideas is to strengthen the bond between two people. The love and passion felt for each other must be enhanced through these. That the idea is simple or elaborate is irrelevant because it is feelings and emotions that rule the heart. Pour your heart into the idea that you have thought of, giving adequate attention to the likes and desires of your partner and see your love life flower like a thousand blooms.

That’s the latest from the Romantic Ideas authorities. Once you’re familiar with these ideas, you’ll be ready to move to the next level.

by: Ravi Agrawal

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